Rudy J. Ferretti
Patrick Scott Patterson
about an hour ago near Denton, TX
I've been talking a lot as of late about evolving and really shoving that word into everyone's faces. Yeah, it's a brand message that I latched on to after a conversation with a dear friend used the word.
But it's not hyperbole. Bear with me through another long Facebook message that will be the last like it for quite some time.
Last week I was working on a project that fits that theme. This week I find myself waiting a little bit. I'm between that project and not yet at SXSW, so I've had a little time to think and reflect on a lot.
Off and on over the past couple of days I've looked around on Facebook. I've been bad about keeping up with what my friends have been posting about as of late, so I looked around. I also took the first looks in quite some time at the walls of people I haven't talked to in some time now.
I see some people who have changed a lot and I see some people who've not changed at all. Sadly, I see some people who are still referencing and even insulting things that happened or were said years ago.
I don't get that at all. Hey... people tend to get upset about stuff. I get that. They say things. I get that, too. When I was in the wrestling business there were times I got upset and said some things. When I first left Twin Galaxies I had some things to get off my chest, too. In late 2012, I was very hurt by some things and I lashed out about them. Hey, I'm human.
But I got over that stuff. Moved on. At this point in time I guess I fully felt that I really have evolved. Stuff that seemed important to me two... three... four years ago seem so unimportant now.
I take a long look at one person in particular and catch up on all they've been saying over the past couple of months. Sure enough, despite my silence on them this person continues to take an allegedly defensive position, failing to realize they are the one doing the attacking.
There this person is, continuing to bark about things that never happened, forgetting all the times
NOTE: BY PATRICK I actually took their side and even going personal, insulting my family and lying about my personal life, all while "preparing" to duplicate something I did when I was 14 years old and apparently expecting me to have carried a video camera around in 1989.
in 89 ok first off no proof, no pic, no article, no video.....
In 89 NOBODY not even game play consul KNEW how to beat Tyson in first rd hitless block less
let alone NOBODY knocked out Soda pop in 89 nobody knew how and furthermore IF he could do that than why WHY he came into playing in so called 2005, why did he not submit his MTPO perfect game he would have gotten MAJOR press, it's funny this loser makes claims and gets respect to lie to dumb people and cannot back it up...
Including his DK KS that never happened
His NES RESUME speaks for itself gaming resume too
This person is seemingly not able to evolve. I thought they had two years ago when they apologized and took back all the nutty conspiracy theory stuff about me, but they swung back around to it all anyway. Yeah, I've said some things back at times (not near as much as I'm claimed to have said) but as I said, I'm human. Hard not to when someone keeps screaming nonsense about you.
I'm not this person's enemy. Never have been. No matter what they claim, I've never done anything to stand in their way and am not doing so now. Not even on the same roads in life. I can only conclude that this person only paints me as his enemy because it's an easy excuse for him. Or he's batshit crazy. Maybe both.
Perhaps if this person doesn't care for how I do business... despite not having a clue as to what it is I do... they should simply stop looking this way. Pretty easy to not look at something. There's stuff I don't look at every day. Move on, boy.
I have.
There's a lot more important things in life out there than words from years ago or scores on old video games that few remember. It is unfortunate that anyone would live their life insisting that someone else is their enemy when the person they paint that way doesn't consider anyone to be theirs.
I shook hands with everyone who wanted to do so at the Kong Off 3. Made me glad to go and mend fences with a lot of people like that. I followed it by wiping my block list here, though I notice some of those people have gone and blocked me now, despite once complaining that I'd done so. Again, I was hurt and emotional about some things. I moved on. I guess they haven't.
I'm not sure if I should feel good about evolving to the point where I have been able to put down that big back of rocks and say with conviction that I have no grudges anymore... that I've seen what is actually worth latching onto both personally and professionally and what isn't.
As I push 40 I finally can say I feel like a grown up. Perhaps that time comes for everyone.
Perhaps it does not.
Never stop evolving, people. Don't let yourself get stuck somewhere in life.









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